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We are star stuff! |
So, like most people, when painful loss occurs I indulge myself in fantasies about what I would like to think could possibly happen if there is a special spark of life energy inside living things. I don't see the harm in doing so, and who knows? Maybe something wonderful does happen! It is nice to let oneself daydream - to feel that departed dear ones might still be somewhere close by. To relieve the pain of grief, I am as apt as a theist to invent stories to comfort myself about my loved ones' "souls" or spirits living on in some form after death.
I know that my ideas are pure fantasy and I expect that other people will have their own, probably different, fantasies. It is a coping tool, not dogma. I remain aware that most of what I let myself believe on this subject is
what I want to believe. I think most people tell themselves what they want to believe when contemplating an "afterlife", but religionists tell themselves it is the
objective truth - based on dogma not evidence - instead of accepting what it really is: a psychological coping tool.
None of us knows what really happens after death but if the stories people believe sooth the pain of losing a loved one (or soothes the fear of where we are going ourselves after we die), I have no quibble with any of them, as long as the concept of soul is only used to ease private emotional pain. I believe that is one of the purposes of the mythos of afterlife. And a perfectly sensible one it is, given our human fear of death. You have to marvel at the resourcefulness and creativity of our ancient ancestors!
Unfortunately, most religious traditions do not use the soul concept or the idea of afterlife simply to cope with grief and loss. I reject totally the usual religious imaginings about what happens after death - ascension to some sort of Valhalla/Paradise/Heaven to live among the gods or else condemnation to a Uffern/Hades/Hell to suffer for eternity. Those fantasies strike me as naked revenge fantasies and nothing more. However, codified into religious dogma, these fantasies cause real harm to people.
The fundamentalist Christian idea, for example, is that one's eternal destination is completely dependent upon
belief. This means that the concept of sin - though used by religionists to cause untold misery to their fellow humans - is, in fact, just a
red herring: eternal joy or eternal damnation depend completely upon something which a person cannot actually control - whether or not s/he can believe in a deity - so sin and morality are actually
irrelevant to Christian "salvation", making their theology amoral at best and (if you think causing suffering to millions of people all over the world is immoral, as I do) evil at worst.
I feel that only people who have swallowed the entire theist mythos could ever accept these ideas at all, let alone consider them just or good. It is a psychological tool used for ill, in my opinion, and is yet another reason why I dislike religion.